The conversations with my college kids sounded differently this week. With one at home and two out of state, I feel fortunate that they communicate in some form several times a week. There are a lot of other things beckoning their time and attention. I have been a young adult (though it’s hard for them […]
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When the Pain of Stretching is a Sign of Hope
In the last several months, stretching became a familiar routine in my life. Literally. But yesterday, it expanded to a metaphorical one as well. Before my accident, I exercised somewhat regularly so stretching was an essential part of keeping my body from harm. When I tried to eliminate it in order to save a few […]
Watching My Son Commit to Discerning His God Given Design
Sometimes our hopes for our kids align with their own desires. And it’s a pleasant surprise. When we, as parents, release our teens-suddenly now- young adults into the world, we are well aware of their fears, comforts, and quirks. Truthfully we all have them. But maturity also plays a role in recognizing them. Some of […]
How Memories of the Past Remind Me of the Need for Rest
Recently, I revisited the long ago struggles of rest time . Not for my kids. They are all young adults. This time, the resistance was all mine. A few months ago, I entered into a medically necessary time of rest following surgery. For six weeks. After the first two days, the restlessness began. Yes, others […]
Reflecting on the Importance of Deep Family Roots
“I miss Granny’s meatloaf.” my young adult son mentioned on the phone the other day. The comment seemed random as we weren’t actually talking about my husband’s beloved grandmother. Interestingly, it was the second comment in a two week span about missing one of her delicious food creations. Granny passed away almost seven years ago. […]
The Holy Work of Holding Our Big Kids’ Hands
It never occurred to me, as a new parent, the possibility that holding hands would never end. I realize now, it just changes posture. Originally, big hand and small hand clasped together, United. Connection. Security. Protection. But as the smaller hand grew , the strength of the grasp started to lessen. Independence beckoned, as it […]
