The landscape of our lives seems to have changed in a year. How we engage with one another looks differently. A year ago, social interaction happened without any thought. Different places offered cultivation of in person relationships: church, work, school, recreational activities. Then it all changed. And we are still adjusting.
While we long for the return of sharing close space in such a way that our senses absorb our common humanity, seeking ways to stay connected is vital. We belong to each other.
This week, I have substitute taught Jr. High students via Zoom. Two weeks ago, I taught the same group in person. The venues have changed and the online version brings its own challenges. But one thing hasn’t: presence.
As we wait for everyone to log in, I take advantage of the minutes to connect personally. We are all craving routine, relationship, and a reminder that. We talk about all kinds of things. I find out a lot by asking questions and listening. The world sounds loud and feels overstimulated right now. Recognizing opportunities to be present with each other offers a balm to the soul.
Let us continue to seek out those seemingly ordinary moments that make up our days and turn them into transformational ones with a listening ear, a few questions, a nod, or a smile. Our methods of engagement may have changed but our ability to leave imprints on each other has not.
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I wonder if I might yet leave
some imprint on the folk I meet,
and often I can scarce believe
that I’m not dust unto their feet,
for I’ve no words to hold them,
except for what I write;
no symbol, charm or totem
to help them through the night.
And that is what I long to do,
illuminate this fell dark road
that may be what they must go through,
and lighten, thus, their load
by offering a steady hand,
and whipered words, “I understand.”
Yep. ‘Whispered’ DOES have an ‘s’.
Need to bee batter at my poofreeding.
You are definitely not dust. You illuminate me with your gifted way with words.
“Let us continue to seek out those seemingly ordinary moments that make up our days and turn them into transformational ones with a listening ear, a few questions, a nod, or a smile.” Stephanie, thank you for these wise words that remind me that small acts can make a world of difference in someone’s life. Visiting from FMF. Blessings.
Thanks for stopping by!
It strikes me that kindness is so important right now, for so many reasons. One way to make that imprint you mention is to remember that we all need connection and kindness is just one way to do it. Thanks.
Thanks Suzette for stopping by!